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A VIP member is one of the awesome people who have paid a small fee to upgrade their membership and help support the site financially. VIP’s get a load of great features to say thanks for their support such as unlimited messaging, priority customer support as well as being able to see who's viewed their profile.

Your personal email and details will never be shown on the site, and you have complete control over what you choose to share with other members. You can rest assured that your privacy is one of our prime concerns, and we will never share any of your information with 3rd parties.

Will you Spam my Inbox? No. Our email systems are SenderScore certified. We only use your email to notify you of any activity on your profile but you can always opt out.

Once you’ve joined for free, you will have access to a bustling, vibrant community of people looking to chat, make friends, meet up and more. You can get to know other members by instant messaging and commenting on statuses. Our members also have some great blogs to help you get to know them better.

1: Adults only This site is strictly 18+. 2: Genuine members only We have protection measures in place so that only real people are allowed to join. We pride ourselves on keeping everyone on our sites safe and giving them the chance to meet other genuine members. We do not allow marketing of goods or services from individual members. 3: Be kind It’s not complicated: treat others online the way you want to be treated! Be courteous in messages, chat rooms, and comments sections. If someone has approached you who isn’t your type, you can let them down respectfully. 4: Be tolerant We have members of all different backgrounds and experiences, and we pride ourselves on creating an inclusive space for all to chat and connect. We do not allow racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, or any other form of discrimination or hate speech. 5: Be safe We do our best to keep your space safe, but sometimes people with bad intentions slip through the cracks. Keep initial conversations on the site so they can be monitored. Never share your bank details with anyone, and don’t send money or gift cards. 6: Be discreet Not everyone here wants to be recognized in the real world, so please respect people’s privacy. If you happen to stumble across another member in public, only approach them if they’ve previously given you their explicit consent to do so. 7: Respect boundaries We will not tolerate harassment: if someone tells you ‘no’, then it’s time to move on. Respect people’s comfort zones when moving conversations forward, and ask for consent before sharing images. 8: Follow the law We don’t allow messages or media around illegal activity, including (but not limited to) depictions of violence, drugs, or related paraphernalia.